送禮的美文
發(fā)布時(shí)間:2017-02-09 來源: 美文摘抄 點(diǎn)擊:
送禮的美文篇一:雙語美文:父母給我的最好禮物
雙語美文:父母給我的最好禮物
雖然父母有時(shí)候也有爭執(zhí),但是我從不認(rèn)為他們會(huì)有不能解決的分歧。關(guān)于愛和婚姻,他們教給我的最重要的一課就是如何在外人面前談?wù)撃愕牧硪话搿?/p>
I've heard the saying, "The best gift parents can ever give to their children is to love each other."
I've had the pleasure of witnessing the truth of this statement for over 40 years. From as far back as I can remember my Mom and Dad were a team. A great partnership. They were more than just a partnership. It was as if they were one person.
Sure, they argued, but there was never any doubt in our minds that any disagreements would be worked through and resolved. Mom and Dad began their married life poor, but they worked hard and, over the years, built a very successful business. They each had their strengths and weak
nesses, but the way they worked together, you never saw the weaknesses, just the strengths.Dad was the outgoing, more public person with whom people met and fell in love with right away. Everyone knew Dad! Then, when they got to meet Mom, they felt the exact same way about her as well. Mom, although not at all shy, was more comfortable being the person behind the scenes. More detail oriented, she ran the books and, according to Dad, was the one who really made the business work.The biggest lesson about love and marriage that my mom and dad taught us kids was how to talk "about" your spouse. Have you ever heard husbands and wives, when speaking to others, make unkind remarks about their spouses? It's one of those things people just seem to do. Sure, they're "only kidding," or maybe they are not. But words matter. And words teach, whether positively or negatively.You would never hear such a thing from my mom and dad. Dad always speaks of Mom in the most complimentary, glowing terms. As does she of him.
This lesson made such an impression on me. I still remember when I was age 12 and we were getting carpet installed in our home. The crew boss was one of those stereotypical beer guzzling, hard-living guys, who would have probably belonged to Ralph Kramden's Raccoon Lodge from the old Honeymooner's TV show. For lunch, my folks bought pizza for the crew. Dad went to talk with the boss about the job. I was around the corner listening.
The boss said, "This is an expensive job. Women will really spend your money,
won't they?" Dad responded, "Well, I'll tell you, when they were right there with you before you had any money, it's a pleasure to do anything for them you possibly can."
This wasn't the answer the carpet installer expected to hear. He was looking for negative banter about wives which, to him, was natural. He tried again: "But, gee, they'll really play off that and spend all they can, won't they?" Dad replied, as I knew he would, "Hey, when they're the reason you're successful, you want them to do the things they enjoy. There's no greater pleasure." Strike two.
The crew boss tried one more time, "And they'll take that as far as they can, huh?" Dad responded, "She's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'd do anything to make her happy."
I was trying not to laugh. I knew he wanted Dad to give in just a little bit and say, "Yeah, I guess that's true." But it wouldn't happen... not in a million years!
Finally, the installer gave up and went back to work, probably shaking his head in bewilderment. Witnessing my dad in that moment taught me more about loving and respecting your wife than anything he could ever have told me about the subject.Mom and Dad are now retired and enjoying their life together, just hanging out, reading, and visiting their children and grandchildren. They recently celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary.
They still hold hands, and they are more in love than ever. Throughout the years, whenever Mom would remind me that I should be looking to get married, I'd say, "Ma, I have plenty of time." She'd jokingly reply that I don't have "that" much time. My Dad would then look at me in that wisdom-filled, city streets bred way of his and say, "Hey, you take all the time you need. If you marry someone just half the woman your mother is, you'll have a great life."
I should only be so lucky.
送禮的美文篇二:給年輕人的最好禮物
給年輕人的最好禮物
成人禮上,我們有哭、有笑、有矛盾、有期待,特搜集整理經(jīng)典勵(lì)志語錄,希望對(duì)正在尋找人生目標(biāo)的你有所幫助。
1. 大學(xué)中培養(yǎng)的最重要的是思考力和判斷力,你需要做的是踏踏實(shí)實(shí)學(xué)你現(xiàn)在需要學(xué)的東西或?qū)W校給你的環(huán)境,給你的知識(shí),慢慢的接觸的人多了,思路開闊了,你就逐漸形成了獨(dú)立的思考和獨(dú)立判斷的能力,這將讓你受益終身。
2. 一定要有獨(dú)立的人格、獨(dú)立的思想。一個(gè)經(jīng)過獨(dú)立思考而堅(jiān)持錯(cuò)誤觀點(diǎn)的人比一個(gè)不假思索而接受正確觀點(diǎn)的人更值得肯定。
3. 視野有多遠(yuǎn),世界就有多大。
4. 人一生中可以完成的事情是有限的。只有專注才能讓自己變得足夠優(yōu)秀。所以說: “有所不為,才能有所為”。
5. 上帝關(guān)上一扇門,一定會(huì)打開另一扇窗,每個(gè)人都應(yīng)該去尋找適合自己的東西,做自己喜歡做的事情,做自己擅長做的事情。
6. 選擇做自己喜歡做的事情,我們需要從自己真正的心里面去作選擇,并不是你認(rèn)為社會(huì)期望你這樣做,父母期望你這樣做,朋友期望你這樣做。只有這樣,你才會(huì)越工作越開心,在遇到困難遇到挫折的時(shí)候,不會(huì)被沮喪擊敗,而全身心的去享受整個(gè)過程。
7. 命運(yùn)是一個(gè)人一生所走完的路,是一個(gè)人用一輩子所完成的作業(yè)。有的人認(rèn)為,命運(yùn)是天注定的,是不可改變的。但在我看來,命運(yùn)不過是人生的方向盤,駛往哪個(gè)方向它掌握在每個(gè)人自己的手中。
8. 你不必因?yàn)橥饨绛h(huán)境的影響而扭曲本真的自我;你不必操習(xí)那些你曾經(jīng)不屑一顧的所謂技巧來獲得他人賞識(shí);你不必讓自己的成就與虛與委蛇、見風(fēng)使舵、患得患失、畏首畏尾相聯(lián)系;在陽光
送禮的美文篇三:有關(guān)禮物的作文
有關(guān)禮物的作文---水晶龍
南陽市七小 六一班 白子燦
我收到過許許多多的禮物,有的華麗、有的漂亮、有的高貴、有的稀有??但它們卻不知被我扔在哪個(gè)角落里了?稍谌ツ赀^新年時(shí),媽媽送我的水晶龍,卻永遠(yuǎn)地保存了下來。
那是去年大年三十的晚上,我們一家三口圍坐在電視前期盼著新年的鐘聲敲響,聽著主持人倒數(shù)五個(gè)數(shù):“5、4、3?? ”我的心里“咚咚”直跳,馬上就要進(jìn)入龍年了,我又長了一歲,你說我能不激動(dòng)嗎?當(dāng)主持人念到0時(shí),媽媽突然鄭重其事地說:“今年我要送你一件特殊的新年禮物!”我先是一愣,緊接著喜出望外,只見媽媽從背后拿出了一件閃閃發(fā)光的東西,我定睛一看,原來是一件用水晶做的雙龍戲珠。我一把從媽媽的手中奪過這件工藝品,它的樣子真是漂亮極了!兩只活靈活現(xiàn)的龍盤旋在空中,頭頂有一顆大珠子,兩只龍正在搶珠子呢,龍做得十分逼真,好像隨時(shí)都可以騰云駕霧,飛入高空。龍?bào)w的下面還有一個(gè)水晶臺(tái),水晶臺(tái)的棱角上面還鍍了一層金。側(cè)面還有一扇門,我打開一看,呀!里面還可以放東西呢。我左看右摸,真是愛不釋手。
從此以后,我與水晶龍朝夕相處,每次放學(xué)回家,我都要先跑進(jìn)臥室仔細(xì)端詳一番我的水晶龍,摸一摸它,擦去它身上的灰塵。有一次,媽媽到我的房間檢查作業(yè),因錯(cuò)題太多,媽媽火冒三丈,拿起我的作業(yè)本重重地摔在書桌上,誰知把水晶龍給
碰倒了。當(dāng)我再次端詳它時(shí),它的身上卻多了一條裂痕,但眼神
中卻透露著威嚴(yán),好像在說;“以后可要改掉馬虎的壞毛病,不
要惹媽媽生氣了,媽媽對(duì)你的期望有多大,你知道嗎?’’看著水
晶龍的樣子,我心如刀絞。是我害了水晶龍,今后我一定要仔細(xì)
審題,認(rèn)真寫作業(yè),努力提高成績,不能再殃及水晶龍了。
隨著時(shí)間的推移,我終于明白了媽媽的良苦用心。媽媽是希
望我能夠好好學(xué)習(xí),不懈努力、不斷進(jìn)取。想讓我做一條龍,一
條正在騰空翱翔的龍。媽媽曾對(duì)我說,如果不能成龍,就做一顆
璀璨的珠子,照亮別人,奉獻(xiàn)社會(huì),她也很欣慰。原來,媽媽對(duì)
我滿懷期望,她希望自己的女兒成龍變鳳,回饋社會(huì)。
一年多來,每次我看到水晶龍身上的裂痕,心口就隱隱作痛。
我一定要好好學(xué)習(xí),來彌補(bǔ)我對(duì)水晶龍的傷害。我一定要努力進(jìn)
取,騰空而上,不辜負(fù)媽媽對(duì)我的期望,做一條讓媽媽引以自豪
的驕龍。
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